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Picture: Denise BissonnetteThe Imperative of Creativity in Seeing Beyond Barriers

Dear Colleagues and Friends,

I recently met a long time subscriber of this newsletter who commented that she had been forwarding each issue to co-workers and colleagues throughout her home state of Delaware from the very beginning. As I began to thank her for sharing this information with others, she interrupted me to say, “I don’t forward your newsletters to be nice – I forward your newsletters in my relentless efforts to be thorn in their sides.” Responding to the look of dismay on my face, she went on, “Denise, the consistent message you send is to not settle for easy answers, but to dig deeper, and to boldly go where we have not gone before.  It’s not a message readily accepted because people would rather be affirmed than challenged.  Some of them just want to skate by, but you are entreating them to bring creativity to the job, which in my mind, is an element in very short supply!  In short, I’m letting you do my dirty work.” 

While at first glance one might think that I would take offense at the role she has me playing with her colleagues, I took it as a deep affirmation of the root purpose of my writing and teaching.  In the spirit of what I once heard one of my spiritual teachers say, “Let the message we send forth be such that it comforts the afflicted, and afflicts the comfortable!” 

We all have friends, family members, employees, or co-workers who are stymied by difficult life circumstances and need our help in seeing beyond their circumstances in order to see possibilities for moving forward into the future.  In particular, however, I am writing this month to those who are employed to assist individuals who are disenfranchised in some way from the larger society and who are now attempting to enter/reenter the economic mainstream.  These people may include individuals with disabilities, people receiving some kind of social or public assistance, folks leaving prison, people in recovery from a drug or alcohol problem, recently emancipated foster youth, new arrivals to the country who speak limited English, veterans of war, people with mental illness, dislocated workers, and a host of other circumstances that constitute what we in the field have labeled as “barriers to employment”.   The majority of these programs are delivered through federal, state, provincial or city offices contracts and/or operated through schools, training centers, universities, independent living centers, and other social service agencies, each operating within its own parameters and set of standards.   

The Imperative of Creativity

I am often asked how it is that my work can appeal and apply to such a vast audience, working in such distinctive environments, and with such diverse populations.  My response is simple.  I believe there is one core purpose we share in common, regardless of the differences in our programs, and it is this:  To help and support people in seeing beyond their (real or perceived) barriers and limitations in order to enter the more expansive field of their potential and possibility!  To me that is the heart and soul of our work, and as such, we are called to creativity in much the same way that the engineer is called to precision, the athlete is called to physical exertion, or the painter is called to artistic expression. 

From this viewpoint, creativity is not just an “extra” that we can contribute when we feel inspired to do so, like the teacher who can choose to take a creative approach to giving a lesson, or the flight attendant adding a creative spin to the reading of the safety instructions.  Rather, I contend that we are called to creativity not simply as a way to occasionally enhance our work, but as the very essence of that work.  Creativity then should be the lens through which we perceive every part of the process culminating in the illumination of a person’s possibilities and the expansion of their choices.  While there may be many elements in short supply in the work we do, I hope you agree that we cannot afford to let creativity be one of them!

This is not meant to be an argument against the powers of logic or the need for practicality, nor is it a denial of our pragmatic concerns and constraints.  Clearly linear, tactical thinking has its rightful place and brings strategic value to the running of an organization and to the management of a caseload, a client group, or a classroom.  My contention is that while these qualities and elements are necessary to certain aspects of a program, the element of creativity and innovation is essential to our work with the individual!  If, in fact, more conventional and traditional approaches to employment, self-sufficiency, and community inclusion were viable and effective for the people we serve, we wouldn’t have so many in need of our services.  What people in large part come for is not to have their case simply ‘managed’, but to be encouraged, affirmed and inspired – stirred to new action and inspired by some new possibility.  People aren’t asking for a snapshot of their current situation as much as the opportunity to view their situation in a different, more hopeful light.  

Inspiration vs. Barrier Identification

Some will argue that a creative approach is difficult to take with people who have barriers and that what is needed first is to identify those limitations.  I couldn’t disagree more.  First, it is precisely because people have multiple barriers that we have no choice but to be creative in helping them find a place in the world! Secondly, I would contend that few people come to us unaware of their barriers and limitations and the implications they carry into every part of their lives.  The person who is deaf knows that her hearing loss will carry limitations in terms of the jobs she can and cannot perform.  The person who has recently been released from prison realizes that he is not bondable, that employers may be reticent to hire him, and that he has no recent work experience.  The older worker who speaks limited English is cognizant of the fact that he may have difficulty filling out an application, responding to questions in a job interview, and that he may face age discrimination.  None of this will come as a surprise.  By the time people come to see us, most will have been made painfully aware of their barriers and limitations through their families, friends, and peers, from society at large, from their life and work experiences up until that point, not to mention from daily reflection in the mirror.  

But here are a few things they may not yet be aware of: the numerous accommodations for someone with a hearing loss and their innumerable applications; innovative ways to create  an opportunity in the work world in which one does not need to be bondable, never has to undergo a classic interview, nor speak fluent English; the businesses who are purposefully attempting to recruit older employees or persons with disabilities; or the many stories of ex-offenders who were given a second chance in their own communities.  More to the point, they may not be aware yet of their dreams and desires, their values and interests, their gifts and talents, or the power of their own strength, courage and resilience!  Most importantly, they may not have the slightest inkling of their immense potential and the vast array of possibilities that lie within their grasp, if they but reach for them!  While identification of barriers serves its purpose in recognizing what support(s) people may need, it is in the recognition of one’s possibilities and opportunities that they will find their strength, their power, and ultimately the spirit to overcome those barriers in order to live the life they choose! 

Expanding Upon Goals to the Deeper Mission

As I travel around the country to deliver training in various aspects of job development and employment counseling, I always ask participants to tell me in a nutshell what they see as the core purpose of their work.  The following responses are fairly typical:

  • “I am charged with placing ten people a month in gainful employment with a minimum 90 day retention period.”
     

  • “My job is to close as many cases a month as possible, whether through employment or other forms of positive participation in a workplace activity.”
     

  • “We’re here to get people into work in order to reduce the welfare rates in our county!”
     

  • “The goal of our program is to move 70% of our caseload a year through key components of service ending in paid employment.”
     

  • “I’m here to make sure that my clients get what they need within the parameters of the system.” 

To me, people who describe the core purpose of their work in such narrow and pragmatic terms are missing the spirit of the deeper work that we have a unique opportunity to strive for in our field.  By contrast, if I were asked to summarize in a few sentences the gist of the mission of that deeper work, it would be this: 

We are called to assist people in discovering or recovering the capacity to dream, to reclaim the vitality of their imagination, and to exercise healthy curiosity.  We are called to support people in the stretching of their insight, in the exploration of their options, and in the questioning of their assumptions!  We are called to assist people in broadening their perspective, in entertaining foreign ideas, and in envisioning new horizons for themselves in the future.  We are called to give people new eyes and a new mind with which to perceive their talents, their gifts, their potential, as well as their limitations.   Having done so, we are further charged in equipping and supporting people to act on and to realize those dreams utilizing the resources and means of the system within which we operate, and do so in a way that meets the pragmatic goals and objectives of our programs. 

Purveyors of Hope

To me, that space between who/what we are today and who/what we can be in the future is the rich, fertile ground inviting imagination and creativity, courage and vision.  The challenge for all of us is having a clear sense of our potential and possibility, especially when we are facing a difficult transition and our courage and vision are in short supply.  Consequently, many people come to us wanting the quickest answer, the shortest route to becoming employed - they aren’t necessarily seeking creative solutions, what they want is the simplest solution.  They don’t often sense that what they have to say is worthwhile or that their skills and abilities are of much value.  Thus, we hear things like, “I’ll take anything” or the even more apathetic response, “Whatever”.  What we need to keep in mind is that these responses are not issuing forth from the confident, informed, or secure place within people.  Many feel up against a wall by the time they come to see us, and as I once heard it said, “It’s hard to make a clear choice when you feel a gun pointed at your head.” 

When in a difficult transition, despite the bravado or the façade we choose to show the world, we are like hermits in a desert, crying our questions into the night: What path I am supposed to take?  What are my choices?  Who am I to become? What am I to make with this time of my life?  Where do I look for answers?  What support is there for me?  We’ve all been there, and Lord knows, we may be there again!  At this critical juncture, it is not an inventory of our roadblocks, limitations,  and sorry circumstances that has brought us to this sorry place that will serve us most.  What we need, rather, is the shelter and shade that comes from human compassion, affirmation, and someone willing to listen to our story.  What we need is the refreshment provided by a rainfall of provocative, non-threatening questions backed by thoughtful, uplifting ideas.  Once on the receiving end of deep listening and benefiting from a fresh perspective, we are led out of the proverbial desert to a place where even the smallest bud of something green erupts through the ground of our fear and doubt.  In the throes of transition, what we need is hope.

Looking Beyond the Surface!

And that’s where we come in!  We are some of the few people in our society who are actually employed to offer support and guidance to people in transition of all kinds.  Even though our program may use employment and retention rates or “case closure” as its indicators for success, we know deep in our bones that our work is to help transform people’s lives in a way that adds to the quality of their daily experience.  My friends, we are alchemists, assisting people to transform the straw of their current circumstances into gold.  In order to do this, we are called to creativity, charged with viewing a person and their circumstances through a variety of different perspectives.  Among those, as I mention in this month’s Poem of the Month, Blue Skies, are the following:

  • The dreamer, who sees with faraway eyes;
     

  • The explorer, who searches for truth beyond the facts;
     

  • The gambler, willing to take a chance;
     

  • The coach, who pushes people to the appropriate limits;
     

  • The gardener, who tends to that which is growing and blossoming;
     

  • The listener, who catches meaning with the net of compassion;
     

  • The one on a mission, who wants to change the world one life a time; and,
     

  • The keeper of the flame, who lights the fire of inspiration into action.

To me, this is the quintessential gift we offer people – alternative ways to view and respond to their circumstances and from which to see and perceive new possibilities!   

I would liken the experience of looking beyond a person’s barriers to their possibility to that of looking into a 3-D poster.  Also known as autostereograms, these are 3D images hidden within another picture.   For those who’ve done it, we are told to stare into the two dimensional picture until a new 3D image begins to take shape.  We are told to relax our vision, not grasping visually at the surface, but looking through it, seeking not the image before us, but the thing beneath the image.  What we are attempting to see is not just one part, but the whole of the piece.  It is a kind of looking that requires letting go of the obvious in order to find what is hidden. The thrill comes in the shift that occurs when we finally see what lies beneath the surface.  All of sudden, a pod of dolphins emerge from the spectrum of colored dots, or a flock of birds appear on the sky of the page which seconds before looked like a mass of colored confetti.  Something new materializes with the slightest change in focus and avowed attention.  It is more of a looking into more than a looking at.  Isn’t this what we mean when we think back to people who have encouraged us and we say, “He/she saw something in me”? 

The amazing thing to me the first time I succeeded in seeing one of these 3-D images was that while it took great patience and avowed attention to see it the first time, once I saw it, it reappeared easily and readily without any effort at all. 

We need to apply the same kind of creative stamina, persistence and patience to look into a person’s abilities and gifts in order to see their possibilities, rather being content to look at their present circumstances.  My experience is that once you have peered into a person and pierced the façade of all that appears wrong in that person’s life, what you may see could amaze and astound you.  And what once took great effort and attention to see, you will not be able to “unsee”.  It is my further experience that when you begin to view people in the greater expanse of their potential and possibilities, they feel the difference in your presence, and they begin to feel different about themselves.  That’s when we want to remove our shoes, knowing we are on holy ground. 

In next month’s issue of this newsletter I am going to pick up where we are leaving off by offering a variety of practical suggestions for bringing creativity and resourcefulness to our everyday work, asking new questions and taking alternative approaches to assessing a person’s potential.  In the meantime, I urge you to read the poem that follows as a further appeal to bring all the powers of your vision and imagination to the vital work of helping people see a vision of their potential emerge from the landscape of their barriers. 

Wishing you bright blue skies!

~ Denise

 

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Poem of the Month

I wrote this poem in 2006 in preparation for a special two hour DVD program on Beyond Barriers to Possibility.  Upon realizing that in order to see beyond a person’s barriers, there are many roles we have to play and many perspectives from which we must view a person, I sensed a poem taking form.  To my surprise, the poem adopted a point of view of someone on the receiving end of services.  In a nutshell, this is what I think the people we serve would say to us if they could!


BLUE SKIES

By Denise Bissonnette
 

Excuse me, what’s that you say,
“This interview is finished?”
Pardon me, but I’ve hardly spoken,
Don’t leave me here diminished.
I’m sorry to disappoint you,
To not have the problem you like to fix,
Instead I come with my own story,
With mystery in the mix.

You see, my hope is shallow, my fear is deep,
I have dreams I can barely dream,
But sometimes I can glimpse blue skies,
Just up the road it seems.
So, if you’re the kind who likes to keep it simple,
Hey, I can handle that,
But please, don’t pass me on
To another bureaucrat!

Is there anyone here who sees beyond,
Who peers behind the smile,
Cuz there’s a lot about me you will not know
By opening up my file.
Is there anyone here who cares at all,
To whom I’m more than another case,
Who sees my life’s unfolding
Beyond this sorry face?

Is there anyone here who listens
In the rare and tender fashion,
Who’ll catch the meaning between my words,
With the net of their compassion?
Is there anyone here who gardens,
Who tends the smallest of seeds,
Cuz sometimes I feel things growin’ in me,
Beyond that list of needs!

Is there anyone here who’s a gambler?
Who’ll back a wounded horse?
Cuz I’ll need someone with faith in me
To set me on right course.
Is there anyone here who’s a coach,
The one who loves that final lap,
Someone who will coax from me,
Resources hidden and untapped?

Is there anyone here who’s a dreamer,
Who sees with faraway eyes,
Cuz my choices are looking rather dismal,
But I’m open to surprise!
Is there anyone here who’s an explorer,
Who searches for truth beyond the facts,
Who’ll focus on my possibilities
And not just what I lack?

Is there a Keeper of the Flame here,
The one who likes to inspire?
Cuz though my world appears quite dark,
I still feel the holy fire!
Is there anyone here who believes in miracles,
Like the one with loaves and fishes,
Cuz according to you I’m going to need a lot more
Than luck and your good wishes!

Because you see, when I go home today
And my family asks, “How did it go down there?”
They won’t be asking about my day,
They’re waiting for me to report to them,
“Hey, I’m on my way –
Somewhere hopeful, somewhere new,
Just up ahead those skies are blue!”
So, if that’s not you, that’s okay,
I’m really fine with that,
But please don’t pass me on
To another bureaucrat!

So go ahead, scan the place,
Find the one who’s on a mission,
To change the world, one life at a time,
Start with mine, you’ve my permission!
Cuz my hope is shallow, my fear is deep,
I have dreams I can hardly dream,
But once in a while I can glimpse blue skies,
Just up the road it seems.
I don’t need anybody brilliant,
Particularly worldly or wise,
Just send me to that someone
Who believes in bright blue skies!

© Copyright, Denise Bissonnette, Diversity World, 2006


Thoughts to Consider

“We all have the software to be creative;
Sometimes we just forget how to use it.”

-  Pam Moore
 

“Where the willingness is great,
the difficulties cannot be”.

- Niccolo Machiavelli
 

“In imagining possibilities
human beings act as prophets of their own existence.”

 - Paul Ricoeur
 

“Learn to see,
then you will know that there is no limit
to the new worlds we can envision.”

- Carlos Casteneda
 

"Man is so made that when anything fires his soul,
impossibilities vanish."

- Jean De La Fontaine
 

 “How does one become a butterfly?” she asked pensively.
“You must want to fly so much
that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.”

 - Trina Paulus
 


Putting It into Practice

  1.  How would you summarize the core purpose of your work in a few sentences or a paragraph?  (Consider having everyone in your office do the same and take the time to share them with one another.)
     

  2. How critical do you think the element of creativity is in the work you do, and in what way do you think it is important? Do you think I have overrated its significance?  If so, why? 
     

  3. Think about a time in your life when you had tunnel vision with regard to you own future, but another person saw opportunities or possibilities for you that you did not see for yourself.  How did that person’s vision affect you and your future?  If it’s possible, consider expressing to that person what their belief and confidence meant to you then, and/or what it means to you now.
     

  4. Think of a time when you saw potential in another person that they did not see in themselves.    How did you go about communicating your vision to them?  How did it feel to play the part of “visionary” for another person?
     

  5. Why do you think it is so difficult to play the part of visionary with a close family member or friend?  Why is it so much easier for us to lend credibility and to put our trust into the opinion of people who are virtual strangers to us? 
     

  6. See if you can track down one of those 3-D posters and put it up on a wall in your office as a reminder of the kind of looking we need to be practicing in our work. 


Denise Bissonnette's Publications

Cover pictures of Denise Bissonnette's books and videosDenise has published several important works on topics of job development, career development, personal development and similar topics. She also has two video-based in-service training programs available. Please visit our online store, Diversity Shop, for more information on these and related products.

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Beyond Barriers to Passion and Possibility

A terrific new in-service training package for your organization! In this compelling DVD presentation, Denise Bissonnette offers practical and innovative ways to assist job seekers in changing their focus from their limitations and barriers to their assets and gifts. Drawn from her popular books and curricula developed over the last twenty years, Denise presents several “key inquiries” to identifying a person’s passion, uncovering their work preferences, and envisioning fresh possibilities in the world of work. The ideas and techniques presented can be used as part of a job club, in a job search workshop, or in one-on-one counseling situations. (1 Hour, 48 minutes) See more details...


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